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Sacred Spot Massage Couples Retreat
November 11th-13th, 2022

What is Sacred Spot Massage?

Do you crave heart opening expansiveness?
Are you fascinated with intimacy and the way it makes you feel?
Have you always wanted to dive deeper into your sexual healing with your partner but haven’t known what to do?
Do you love the way it feels when you’re connecting sexually with your partner and are ready to take it to a level you never imagined possible?
Are you ready to integrate ancient cross cultural sexual practices into your life?

Join us on our 3 Day Sacred Spot Massage Intensive all Inclusive Retreat! We’ll be on a property nestled in the hills outside of Sacramento right on the river. Together we will undergo a transformative weekend where we will dive deep into sacred spot massage, lingam massage, heart expansive intimacy, and all the juiciness your heart can desire. 

As a community we will open up space to grieve, celebrate, eat delicious food and rewrite old neural patterns so that you walk away from this weekend feeling even more connected and more sexually satiated with yourself and your partner. 

Jordan & Olivier

With Jordan & Olivier Bessaignet

Any questions?

As Facilitators we absolutely 100% understand what an edgy topic this can be and we work hard to create a space that is safe for everyone.

The alluring land that will be hosting us is unique in its relaxing shanti vibes and will fully dazzle you with its richness. The weekend will be affluent in community, healing, intimacy, play, potency, nourishment, and spectacular humans. 

Who is this for?

This 3 Day Sacred Spot Massage Retreat is for those that want to dive deeper into their sexual healing with their partner and for those wanting to create even deeper intimacy with themselves.  This retreat is for those that are ready to understand their sexuality from a physical, spiritual, and emotional perspective. 

This retreat is open to:

Humans who are in an intimate relationship that feel comfortable exploring each others genitals. *see below for more details*
Those of all sexual orientations and gender identifications. If you have genitals of any kind you are welcome!

* In the traditional sense this means couples but if you aren’t currently in a sexual relationship with anyone and want to come you can invite a friend.

Activities Will Include

Entering into a sacred space of trust, safety, love, and respect
Sharing and allowing yourself to be seen in your journey
Opportunities for neural reprogramming for your genitals
Community circling
Journaling
Pelvic floor Activation
Guided Active Meditations
Guided Breathwork
Guided facilitation of yoni de-armoring 
Guided facilitation of sacred spot massage
Guided Facilitation of Lingam massage
Ample down time to practice all you learn
Community Rituals

Bring your breath, your sound, your movement, your energy, your presence, your longings, your playfulness, your wildness, your sexiness, your shyness... All of you is welcome, just the way you are.

Testimonials from Previous Workshops

Can’t say enough good things about this couple. Had an incredible experience Sunday with their breath work and authentic human connection offerings. If you want to enhance your communication skills and be more vulnerable with yourself and others, I highly suggest this program.

Marla

Marla Paulina

 

I attended the Shakti Play free Tantra workshop and walked away with practices to add to my daily life. The insight from the facilitators was so beautiful, and the breath I have been able to encompass since the workshop has truly helped me feel embodied. I look forward to taking the eight week course!

Tashina

Tashina

 

I attended the second introduction evening for the Tantra workshop and was delighted by what Olivier and Jordan have to offer. There was a huge focus on consent and communication which allowed me to be comfortable to fully explore the practices that were offered. Olivier and Jordan are skilled facilitators balancing a playful yet deep opportunity for tantric exploration. I left feeling like I was riding on cloud nine. Truly an amazing introduction to this field of study.

Tylor Traynor

Ty Traynor

 

The introduction was such a grounding and sweet way to come by to my breath and my heart 💚 I am so stoked for the people that will be able to participate in the full series. Love that fear and shyness, and take of leap of faith 💚

Shelby

 

"This completely changed my life"

"10 out of 10 recommend!"

"I'm a completely different man"

"Lots of healing from trauma"

"Held in a safe community space"

"It was an amazing class!"

"I felt safe exploring my sexuality"

"These practices are tremendous"

"Being able to receive was a stretch"

"I feel more embodied and juicy!"

"I'm floating on a cloud!"

"I finally dropped my guard down"

"My breath work really opened up"

"Love without expectations"

Pricing

Workshop fee is a 1-time payment of $1200 or a 4x payment of $333 per couple. We are also offering a 10% discount to our BIPOC brothers and sisters (holla at ya girl).

Pricing includes organic food, gluten free and vegetarian options available.

Give us a call at 775-420-6167 for any question.

* Payment does not include accommodations fee. We'll be taking separate payments on site for your room or camping option, and will need to be paid in full before the retreat starts.

Calendar

Arrival Friday November 11th from 3-5pm
Retreat starts on Friday at 6pm
Retreat ends on Sunday 13th at 4pm

Massage Therapist On Site

During your downtime you can book a session with Mallory, our on site massage therapist, to help regulate your nervous system and dive deeper into your body to integrate what you’re discovering or let go of any built up tension as you explore these edgy topics! $100/hour

Location

Lotus, California, by the American River

Accommodations are not included in the workshop price.

Please visit the accommodation page to check out the pricing and select your room.

Select Your Room Here

About the Facilitators

Olivier & Jordan

Facilitators have been trained in:

Sky Dancing Tantra, Level 1, 2 and 3
Non-Violent Communication with Scott Catamas and Katrina Vaillancourt (2 years).
Tantra with teacher Bhagvati Granier (Paris, France), for 12 years
Internal Family System therapy modality with founder Richard Schwartz
Advanced Integrative Therapy with founder Asha Clinton (2 years)
Source Tantra CTE-1 with Charles Muir
Intimacy & Embodiment with Michaela Boehm
Tantra with Evalena Rose
ManKind Project since 2017

FAQ

Q: How much is the price of the total retreat?

A: The retreat itself is $1200 or 4 payments of $333 plus the price of lodging!

Q: What is Sacred Spot Massage?

A: Sacred Spot Massage is a tantric genital massage focused on dissolving tension, numbness, and is beneficial for creating more neural pathways for pleasure by allowing the body to release. 

Q: Where is the retreat located?

A: The retreat is located on a beautiful property in Lotus, California. 

Q: Do I need a partner to attend?

A: The short answer is yes. However, this person can be a friend and doesn’t necessarily have to be a romantic partner. Because of the nature of this retreat we are only opening it up to partners or teams of 2.